Today was a slower day. David and Michelle definitely felt the effects of the last 2 weeks, as they slept in again, and then slowly worked their way through the day. There was another nap for David and a doubling of vitamins for Michelle. We are grateful for this extremely quiet apartment, the private time, and then the opportunity to head back to the Krochko's for more wonderful food and fun for the evening.
Michellie slept in and then read quietly in bed. For those of you who know Michellie well enough, she hardly ever takes time to read. If the book can draw her in, she can steal away the day with it. This was a good diversion for her today. Michellie was moving a little slower today, but without any pain killers or nausea drugs. She even felt well enough to put her jeans on for the first time since having the bone marrow taken out (there was a bit of bruising on her hip bones), she got out the perfume she received for Christmas and the smell was not overpowering for her, and then she did her hair in clips and let it hang so nicely around her shoulders, (usually she would have it in a ponytail).
We have to thank the Krochko's for their incredible friendship, hospitality, care, concern and love. This evening we laughed and laughed and laughed with all the kids as they came and went with their various antics and activities. Kamryn, their granddaughter, was a lot of fun at 20 months, and so were the animals as they worked around this little going concern. Our teenagers were ready for a night on the town, and we enjoyed all the hoopla that goes with getting ready to go out. It brought back memories of our college days, although we are told that we really do not know what partying means - we will continue to let them think they are right!
Michellie had a chance to go out for a bit without her parents hanging around, and she got to watch her brother shop for clothes. She enjoyed the opportunity to be a teenager again with all the independence that she had acquired before last week. We were happy parents to see her going out with buddies and not needing us. Tomorrow is our last day in Halifax as a family. MacKenzie will fly back to Alberta on Wednesday morning, and Michellie will have her last chemo for round 1. Michellie's blood count is predicted to drop over the next week, and sometime in the next week she will see her hair begin to drop. This will be a tough time we know, so we are embracing the moments we have right now to be as normal as possible with the energy Michellie has gained back.
Oh, the appetite is gaining again, and pizza is being called for. We will embrace the opportunities in Halifax to get pizza at any hour in the evening and within walking distance. Back on the island this will be a distant memory.
December 14th marks the day that our lives changed instantly with Michellie's diagnosis of Hodgkins Lymphoma. Please keep up with her journey by returning here often.
From Louise L. Hay - "Heart Thoughts - A Treasury of Inner Wisdom"
Every Hand that Touches Me is a Healing Hand
I am a precious being and loved by the universe. As I increase the love I have for myself, so too does the Universe mirror this, increasing love ever more abundantly. I know that the Universal Power is everywhere, in every person, place and thing. This loving, healing power flows through the medical profession and is in every hand that touches my body. I attract only highly evolved individuals on my healing pathway. My presence helps to bring out the spiritual, healing qualities in each practitioner. Doctors and nurses are amazed at their abilities to work as a healing team with me.
From Louise L. Hay - "Heart Thoughts - A Treasury of Inner Wisdom"
I am a precious being and loved by the universe. As I increase the love I have for myself, so too does the Universe mirror this, increasing love ever more abundantly. I know that the Universal Power is everywhere, in every person, place and thing. This loving, healing power flows through the medical profession and is in every hand that touches my body. I attract only highly evolved individuals on my healing pathway. My presence helps to bring out the spiritual, healing qualities in each practitioner. Doctors and nurses are amazed at their abilities to work as a healing team with me.
From Louise L. Hay - "Heart Thoughts - A Treasury of Inner Wisdom"
Ah, order in food! What is that like? LOL
ReplyDeleteSounds like you are having a wonderful few days there in Halifax. What great friends you have!
Thinking about you traveling home with the weather they are talking about today...hope it clears up, and you have a nice drive home.
Cheers!
There will be friends waiting to greet you all back in Mabou..and I 'll bet you there will be pizza for Michellie if she asks. Have a safe trip back..
ReplyDeleteWe are keeping a close eye on the weather for Wednesday-for Kenzie flying out and you all driving home.
ReplyDeleteDoesn't sound bad.
Michellie-home will look SWEET.
Safe home-
Love Grammy & Grampy
This is a good time, while you are still in Halifax, to go out looking for wigs together. It can be lots of fun to try on different hair styles and colours. Pick out a couple that Michellie really likes, or else a couple of funky caps/hats. The local cancer society may actually be selling some cute hats in the hospital, itself. There may be some specialty wig shops in Halifax but I bought two cool and relatively inexpensive wigs at the Hudson's Bay store here in downtown Ottawa.
ReplyDeleteIt's so good to hear of Michellie getting out and about and enjoying herself.
Praying for a safe trip back to Mabou for you all, and for Kenzie flying back out West.
Cheers,
Beverly
Have been away for a few days over Christmas but was delighted to get home again and have the chance to catch up on your blog. You are all being very brave and finding sustenance in the warmth of friends, laughter and enjoying the moment. So many good memories and small victories over the past week. And what a relief it must be to KNOW that the chemo works. That tumour has shrunk already. (I remember being so amazed and hopeful when my neck tumour shrunk to almost nothing within 48 hours of chemos.) Re: hair, I have some advice which you may or may not take. I found it best for me that once clumps were appearing on the pillow every morning, to just have my head shaved. That got it over with in one fell swoop rather than suffering emotions every single morning as I observed the damage. And if Michellie is at all interested in a wig (she may think she isn't but be pleasantly surprised when she sees how great she looks and how fun they are to wear), you might want to look around in Halifax before you head home. I had a lot of fun trying on wigs with a gal who specialized in serving cancer patients (actually had a slow-growing cancer herself) and thus was very sensitive and gentle. And everyone who know how to knit or sew seemed to make a cap or hat for me. The knit caps were especially handy at night for warmth. Surprising how much hair keeps one's head warm. Enough advice-giving. Thanks for letting us have these snapshots of your family courageously doing far more that just coping with cancer.
ReplyDeleteLove and light,
Sharon
Dear Greenwells:
ReplyDeleteI've just joined the blog and have just completed reading each and every day. My face is wet with tears of sadness and of joy - how wonderful people are at times like this - and dear Michellie - how brave she is - and how brave and wonderful are her parents!
Thank you for putting this blog together - it's my first 'blog' read - so you're never too old - thought I had to sign my life away - but got it together! Can't wait to hear more news. Know that I'm sending prayers daily your way. God bless you all.
Love and Hugs
Mary Janet